If you think you don’t need men, then you shouldn’t get married.
If you make a man feel like you don’t need him then he’ll find a woman who does. Ultra feminine women know how to make a man feel like a man and know how to make them feel wanted and needed. If this is not a natural trait of yours, it can be learned easily but may be harder to implement until you change the way you think about men.
Why do we need men? Men are protection, logic and more safety conscious than a woman. I did some dangerous stuff as a single woman that my husband couldn’t believe; and as I think back, while it was fun at times, many decisions weren’t made as wisely as they could've been with my safety in mind. Ultimately God protects us, but he’s also given us common sense and expects us to use it. God designed men to be naturally protective over women and their children which is probably why men are physically stronger than women.
Take a car dealership situation for example, salesmen know they can get over on a woman because she’s usually less knowledgeable about cars than men are. As soon as a man comes on the scene, the salesman changes his tune completely because he knows he can’t manipulate the woman anymore with a male present.
Just the mere presence of my husband’s masculine voice over the phone when dealing with business scenarios completely changed how a person was talking to me and handling the situation. As a result, I’ve seen entire situations handled more effectively than when I was handling business with my feminine voice and literally saying the same exact thing as my husband! This happened on several occasions whether the person I was speaking to was a male or a female.
Men aren’t an accessory to make us feel good about ourselves. God placed them in our lives for a reason, two have better return for their work. Feminists would hate the statement that women need men because they think women work a job, get paid and take care of themselves, what do we need men for? Maybe sex? We are designed by God to be different from men, not to try and be like them and usurp their position. In a relationship, there is a male and female, which one do you plan to be?
Men will find a woman who appreciates them for who they are and allows them to function in their God given male role while the woman functions in her feminine role. Men should not be faulted or looked down on for this, it’s how they’re wired and if you can’t provide that feminine role for them, they’ll find somebody else who will. It doesn’t matter what you look like, once they see a masculine spirit in you it’s a huge turnoff. They want to marry a woman, not a man who acts like them.
When you learn more about how men think, operate and do business you’ll understand why God made them the head over the woman. Oftentimes, you may not be able to fully experience this until you get married, live in this scenario and see the results of different life situations and decisions play out. This isn’t to say women don’t play an important role and can’t make decisions in relationships, of course we can, but God created a hierarchy for a reason.
Women are often emotionally driven and don’t see the logical side as clearly as a man in certain situations, which is very important in business and decision making. This concept of needing a man should also make you very wise in your selection of a man to court and marry. If it’s somebody who will be making important decisions that will affect your life and the lives of your children, it needs to be a man who is worthy of your admiration and respect.
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