Your past relationships are over, or are they? Your past relationships may be physically over but they may not be emotionally or mentally over for you. What does this mean?
Oftentimes, women have more of an emotional attachment in relationships than men do, especially if you were involved in a sinful sexual relationship. Jesus has forgiven you, but have you really been purged of that person in your heart, mind and soul? Have you forgiven them and yourself? Heartbreak in relationships can be extremely damaging in more ways than one and at times it can even take years for some people to heal completely from them. Before you get married and even meet your future husband, you want to be sure you rid yourself of these ex-relationships, for good. Just because you’ve been forgiven by God, doesn’t mean you’ve been delivered in your heart, mind and soul.
What’s the best way to do this? Let’s start with the basics. Are you still in contact with any of your exes in any way, shape or form? On social media, is their number is still in your phone, do you still meet with them from time to time, etc.? Here’s the solution for this, delete them.
You shouldn’t have contact with any men from your past whether you were involved with them sexually or not.
Why? What if you met your future husband today and you learned he’s still in touch with all of his ex-girlfriends, what would you think? You’d think he wasn’t completely over them or he was leaving his options open in case something could work out with one of them again. So, it’s in your best interest to get rid of them. Out of sight, out of mind.
To add to this, you should get rid of the pictures as well. I understand, some things are sentimental and are a part of your cherished memories, but do you want your future or your past? If it’s hard for you to get rid of the photos, you might still have an emotional attachment that needs to be broken. (If you have kids with an ex, adjust this advice accordingly). What if you got married next week and your future husband found photos of you with your ex that you had a sexual relationship with or vice versa? This is fuel to incite many unnecessary arguments. Are you still hoarding gifts they gave you as well? Toss them. Literally. Don’t sell them or give them away, put them in the garbage and take out the “trash” (pun intended). These physical memories of your exes can be used by the devil as demonic points of contact to keep you emotionally, spiritually and psychologically bound to that person. It’s very important from a spiritual standpoint to get rid of these items.
What’s next? Your deliverance. You need to pray regularly and ask God to remove any leftover emotions, feelings, nostalgia, thoughts, ambitions, hurt, bitterness, resentment, anger, regrets, etc. that you may still be holding on to whether you’re aware of it or not. Ask him to purge your heart, soul and mind and take away anything you ever had for that person(s). God will do it. Pray until you sense a release in the spirit. If you pray in tongues, allow the Holy Spirit to perfect your prayers in English. If you don't pray in tongues but you want to, ask the Lord to baptize you in the Holy Spirit and allow your mouth to be free in prayer and receive your promised gift of power, Amen.
Daughter of God, it’s time for your deliverance. Be delivered by the power of the Holy Spirit, may God purge you of your past at every level and may you be made whole and prepared for your husband in your spirit, mind, soul and body. I pray for the depths of your soul to be delivered in areas you are unaware of so your future marriage may never be hindered or bothered by your past and may your mistakes be blotted out of your mind, just like Jesus blots our sins from His mind, because it's over.
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