What Are You Doing?
- Becoming Irresistible
- 17 hours ago
- 4 min read
What are you doing differently today that you weren’t doing a few months or a year ago? By differently, I mean what have you changed in your surroundings, actions, behaviors or friendships that has legitimately put you in a better position to meet your husband?
Are you still sitting at home every weekend and after work every evening hibernating from the world expecting your husband to knock on your door? Are you still going to the same church and never visiting or participating in other church’s ministries or activities? Do you have any new male Christian friends that you’re physically attracted to that could be a good candidate for marriage?
Have you gotten connected with different Christian communities that have a multitude of physically attractive men you would be interested in? Have you started your own Christian community if you haven’t found any otherwise?
Have you been open to and prayerful about relocating to another city, state or even country if you’ve found that your current location is just not conducive to meeting any good Christian men? Have you totally given up on meeting someone and don’t care anymore? Have you stopped praying about it?
These are all real reasons why some Christian women are still single. Maybe nothing has changed (faith without works is dead, James 2:26) or hope has been lost (hope deferred makes the heart sick, Proverbs 13:12). If you still desire a husband, you can’t give up and you have to make some actionable changes in your life.
It’s been awhile, but this is encouragement for you to not lose hope. In all honesty, there can be other serious reasons why some women are still single and it can be based on things like their past, personality traits, etc. that could literally destroy a marriage and desperately hurt the heart of one of God’s sons. God doesn't only have to consider you in this equation, but He has to consider His son as well who has to deal with you for a lifetime and you all should be compatible on most levels to work.
You may not realize it now, but you’d much rather never be married and live a life fully committed to God as your husband than to get married and live through a bad marriage and be in a divorced situation. You have to seek God for yourself to find out if marriage is something truly for you and if it’s what God wants you to have.
If it is, you’ve got to be ready to change in every area God is leading you to change AND in every area your husband tells you that needs to be changed. Neither one will necessarily be easy, but you’ll see later that it’s always for your benefit. Human beings are naturally set in their ways, but you have to be open, malleable and completely submitted to God. The Proverbs 31 woman doesn’t just happen overnight, consider it a journey.
If you've kept hope alive and you’ve been doing things differently than before; Congratulations, you’re on the right path to making yourself more available and it’s likely just a matter of time. While you’re doing things differently, you also want to make sure to do things most effectively to get yourself noticed by attractive men. What’s the use in putting yourself out there, making new attractive Christian male friends and then finding yourself in a perpetual “friend zone?”
You don’t want that, so don’t disregard how visual men are when it comes to finding a wife. Refresh your memory with these blogs, videos and my book that will help you spruce up your appearance and give you some feminine “game” to snag your Boaz.
Take your picks and enjoy!
Blogs:
YouTube Videos:
Book:
*Bonus:
*Featuring myself and my husband!*
Finally meet and marry the man God has for you. Marriage preparation and Godly relationship advice for Christian women. Order the book here: Irresistible: The Ultimate Guide to Marriage Preparation.
Subscribe to our YouTube channel and turn on the notification bell for more relationship advice.
Don't forget to sign up for our newsletter to be informed of more helpful content.
If you enjoyed this article, share it on social media with your friends!
Commenti